Author Archives: Jay Butchko
Reasons People Divorce After 20 Or More Years Of Marriage
It is natural to assume that when a couple has been married for 20 years or more, their marriage will last forever. After all, at this point each party knows the other very well, and the two people have likely fallen into a routine that works for both of them. Unfortunately, no marriage is… Read More »
Served With Divorce Papers? Here Is What To Do Next
Even if you know that your marriage is in trouble and divorce is an option, being served with the official papers is always upsetting. It is natural at this time to feel anger, confusion, and even grief. This is an important time, though, to keep your emotions in check so that you can proceed… Read More »
Need To Change Your Divorce Lawyer? Here Are Three Signs
If you are going through a divorce, the lawyer that represents your best interests will have a major influence on the outcome of your case. Most divorce attorneys in New York tell their clients that they will make their case a priority and do whatever is necessary to secure a favorable outcome. Unfortunately, this… Read More »
How Is Spousal Support Determined In Suffolk County?
If you are going through a divorce, you may be concerned that you will not be able to enjoy the lifestyle you have become accustomed to during your marriage. If this is a worry of yours, you may be able to pursue spousal support. You can reach an agreement with your spouse about maintenance,… Read More »
Frequently Asked Questions About QDROs
Retirement accounts and funds are some of the most complex to divide during a divorce. Sometimes, a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) is necessary when dividing assets in certain types of retirement accounts. QDROs are highly misunderstood by people who need to obtain one, and there is much confusion about how to file one…. Read More »
How To Win Your Child Custody Modification Case?
Family law judges award child custody during divorce proceedings based on what is in the child’s best interests. However, circumstances can change and things that were true at the time of divorce may change over time. In these instances, parents can petition the court to modify a current child custody order. Modifying a court… Read More »
Does Spousal Support End If The Recipient Remarries?
Spousal support, also known as spousal maintenance or more commonly, alimony, is not always awarded during divorce in Long Island. Spousal support is intended to financially support a lower-earning spouse during and/or after a divorce. There are many factors considered when decisions about spousal support are made. Judges can also determine not only the… Read More »
What Is Equitable Distribution During Divorce?
Many people only hear the term ‘equitable distribution’ when they are getting a divorce, and they often wonder what it means. All states in the country are governed by either community property or equitable distribution laws, and they dictate how property is divided during a divorce. Most states, including New York, follow the equitable… Read More »
How Long Must You Pay Child Support?
All parents in New York are legally required to financially support their children. This remains true even when the two parents were never married, or after they get a divorce. When parents are not married, at least one can be ordered by the court to pay child support. After a divorce, one parent may… Read More »
New Study Shows Link Between Lavish Wedding And Divorce
The height of wedding season is just a few months away, meaning that many couples are in the middle of planning their special day. Many people feel pressure to spend tens of thousands of dollars on the most beautiful wedding attire, flowers, music, photography, and of course, the food. In 2023, the average cost… Read More »